Choose YOUR Perfect First Dance Song… without pulling your hair out! 

Choose YOUR Perfect First Dance Song… without pulling your hair out! 

Your first dance as a married couple is one of the most unforgettable moments of your wedding day. It’s that intimate, personal highlight where the world fades away, and it’s just the two of you, dancing to a song that tells your love story. 

From Ed Sheeran to Chris Stapleton… there are SO many beautiful First Dance songs to choose from. Whether you're a fan of timeless classics or looking to make a modern statement, picking the right song is crucial. 

Sometimes it feels impossible to pick just ONE - but don’t throw your entire dance out the window because of it. It’s actually EASY to snag the perfect tune to express your love on the dance floor. 

To help guide you, I’ve compiled the TOP 10 First Dance Songs (based on not only this years’ trends but also classic choices engaged couples love). Whether you’re in crunch mode for your 2024 wedding, or you’re planning next year and beyond… this list is for you!

1. “Lover” by Taylor Swift

Lyric Highlight: "Can I go where you go? Can we always be this close forever and ever?"

It’s hard to imagine a more romantic song for your first dance. Taylor Swift’s "Lover" has been a wedding favorite since its release, and it continues to top the charts in 2024. Its sweet lyrics and dreamy melody make it a perfect choice for couples who want to express their deep connection and everlasting love.

2. “Adore You” by Harry Styles

Lyric Highlight: "Just let me adore you, oh honey."

Harry Styles brings a modern vibe with this love ballad. "Adore You" is a song full of passion and affection, with a rhythm that makes it easy to sway to. It’s ideal for couples who want a song that's both contemporary and deeply sentimental.

3. “Beyond” by Leon Bridges

Lyric Highlight: "I’m scared to death that she might be it, that the love is real, that the shoe might fit."

Leon Bridges’ soulful voice and heartfelt lyrics make "Beyond" a standout choice. The song beautifully captures the excitement and uncertainty of true love, making it a perfect anthem for couples embarking on a lifelong journey together.

4. “Perfect” by Ed Sheeran

Lyric Highlight: "I found a love to carry more than just my secrets, to carry love, to carry children of our own."

No first dance song list would be complete without Ed Sheeran. "Perfect" has become a wedding staple, and its popularity shows no signs of waning in 2024. The song’s gentle melody and romantic lyrics encapsulate the essence of a love that feels destined.

5. “All of Me” by John Legend

Lyric Highlight: "Cause all of me loves all of you."

John Legend’s "All of Me" continues to be a top contender for first dances. This song is a declaration of unconditional love and devotion, with a piano-driven melody that makes it an intimate and emotional choice for your special moment.

6. “You Are the Reason” by Calum Scott

Lyric Highlight: "I’d climb every mountain and swim every ocean just to be with you."

This powerful ballad by Calum Scott is for couples who want their first dance to be an emotional and heartfelt moment. "You Are the Reason" speaks to the lengths we go for the ones we love, making it a fitting choice for a wedding.

7. “Speechless” by Dan + Shay

Lyric Highlight: "I’m speechless, staring at you, standing there in that dress."

For country music lovers, "Speechless" by Dan + Shay is a perfect first dance song. It’s a romantic tune that captures the awe and admiration one feels on their wedding day, particularly when seeing their partner in all their bridal glory.

8. “At Last” by Etta James

Lyric Highlight: "I found a dream that I could speak to… a dream that I can call my own."

If you’re looking for THE absolute classic, this jazzy and romantic song is IT. Etta’s powerful and yet tender vocal performance perfectly balances the steady rhythm and easy-to-dance-to form. PLUS (pro tip!) this song is the PERFECT length for your First Dance… a little under 3 minutes long. 

9. “Yours” by Russell Dickerson

Lyric Highlight: "I came to life when I first kissed you."

Russell Dickerson’s "Yours" is another country hit that’s made its way into the hearts of many couples - especially in Colorado and across the Front Range. Its lyrics speak of transformation and finding your true self through love, making it a beautiful choice for your first dance.

10. “Say You Won’t Let Go” by James Arthur

Lyric Highlight: "I wanna live with you, even when we’re ghosts."

James Arthur’s "Say You Won’t Let Go" is a song that beautifully captures the promise of lifelong commitment. Its simple yet profound lyrics, combined with a soft, acoustic melody, make it a timeless choice for a first dance.

Remember - whether you go for a timeless classic or a modern hit, the most important thing is that the song resonates with both of you

So, take a moment, listen to these songs, and imagine yourself on the dance floor, surrounded by your loved ones, as you share this special moment with your partner.

Whichever song you choose, your First Dance will be an unforgettable memory. So make it one you WANT to revisit over and over again - with your love, your family, and friends. 

Elizabeth Marberry